Way Of Water: Mens Tantra & Energy Mastery Retreat
The Way of Water Men’s Retreat is a unique weekend experience for men who want to connect more deeply with their body, understand their sexual energy, and develop a more grounded connection with themselves and with life. This weekend was inspired by my online program for men, to create a in person space for men to dive deep into themselves and have a more profound experience of the Way of Water practices.
"This work has opened my eyes to being more aware and more conscious in my body. I’ve never felt this comfortable with myself before. Your joy and ease make the practices feel natural and safe. It’s also ignited a new interest in Qigong for me." Course Participant
Who is it for?
This weekend is for men who want to get a clearer understading of their own energy and sexual self. Who want to know how to return to their calm, still masculine centre, reconnecting with their body, and deepen into a more grounded, conscious and embodied form of man.
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This retreat is open to men who have already completed the Way of Water online training and for those looking to start that journey with me.
There is no nudity or sexual practices in the group space.
Everything is fully clothed, embodied and rooted in presence, safety and integrity.
An Ancient Wisdom Path of Masculinity
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The Way of Water is an ancient Taoist term, embracing a middle path for man. Free of the rigidity of stoicism and the ungrounded path of emotionally led sensual gratification, it treads the middle way between strength and gentleness, head and heart, body and soul, awareness and energy
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During this weekend you will explore:
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Coming home to your masculine centre as a place of grounding and coherence
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How to soften inner armour without collapsing
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How the mind and emotions creat shame, stress and self-rejection, pulling men out of presence
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How to reconnect with your truth
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How sexual energy can be held wisely and safely within the body as an energy of empowerment
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How to meet life, relationships and yourself with integrity
This is a space where men can support each other
Where you can develop emtional awareness and sexual energy regulation
Where you can learn to master your nervous system
Where you can learn to masterJing . Chi . Shen .. body, heart and mind
WHAT TO EXPECT OVER THE WEEKEND
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Embodiment Practices
Every day begins and ends by returning to the body.
Through Meditation, Qi Gong, Chi Yoga, Breath and stillness, you will rediscover the natural intelligence of your body.
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Deep Inner Inquiry
Using my Three Bodies Healing method, you will explore:
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Physical tension and holding patterns
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Emotional awareness & regulation
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Energetic patterns that shape your life
This is a powerful technique that helps men release negative conditioning and come back to becoming everything they came here to be.
Talks on Masculinity & Sexual Energy
Across the weekend I will share core teachings on:
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Conscious masculinity
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How men can regulate their nervous system
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How to stay grounded in intimacy, relationship & life
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The Way of Water approach to tantric energy
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Evening Integration
After Day One this will be an invitation to return to your accommodation for a silent evening and private Way Of Water Sexual Energy Practice.
Sharing Circle
There will be time for spacious, heartfelt circles, an opportunity to speak your truth, name what is shifting, and connect with a solid group of men.
DATES & TIMES
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Saturday January 31 – Sunday February 1, 2026
Glastonbury, UK
Day One: 9:30 am to 5:15 pm
Day Two: 9:30 am to around 5:00 pm
What you'll get from the Weekend ..
In the words of previous course participants​​​
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"I never realised how disconnected I was from my own body until this course. The simplicity of slowing down and actually feeling was profound. For the first time, I understood what presence means."
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"The belly softening practice alone was life-changing. I’ve held tension there my whole life. Learning to breathe into it gave me permission to trust myself again."
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"I came in expecting techniques, but what I found was something deeper — awareness. Just feeling my body without judgement was incredibly healing."
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"I’ve done a lot of men's work, but no one ever taught me how to actually feel my sexual energy without shame or pressure. This opened a new doorway for me."
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"Even in just a few sessions, this work has opened my eyes to being more aware and conscious in my body. I’ve never felt this comfortable with myself before."
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"Looking deeply into myself was something I'd always avoided. But here, it felt safe. A huge shift in healing for me."
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"Speaking to myself during the practice — saying things like ‘you're safe’ — completely changed my relationship with my body. It allowed the masculine and feminine inside me to meet in a beautiful way."
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"The meditative states before and after the practice have transformed everything. Releasing tension has been the key to releasing guilt. This is reshaping more than just my sexual energy — it’s reshaping my life."
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"This space is subtle, simple, and profound. I’ve understood Tantra intellectually before, but this course helped me actually experience it in my body."
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"I didn't realise how much tension I carried until doing this work. Learning to relax my body has changed how I relate to myself."
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"Seeing self-pleasure as a practice rather than a goal has been a huge shift. This feels like the beginning of a much deeper journey."
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"Every time I practise, my world expands. I’m even being checked out more the energy shift is real. This is powerful work for men."
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"I now understand energy containment in a completely new way not as control, but as presence. I finally experienced my sexual energy as something I could hold, not something that overwhelms me."
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"Learning to relax my base completely changed my life. Instead of being pulled into tension or fantasy, I felt grounded and aware the whole time."
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"This week touched something deep emotionally. Feeling instead of escaping created space I didn’t know I had. The belly work is changing how I live day-to-day."
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"Understanding the difference between energy and consciousness has been huge. Seeing that I can meet energy with awareness instead of acting it out is reshaping my habits and relationships."
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"The practices this week made me realise how much I leak energy when I’m anxious or overstimulated. Learning to hold energy in the belly has been grounding and empowering."
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"This training opened my eyes to being more conscious and comfortable in my body. Your joy made everything feel natural and safe."
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"Your teachings were full of moments I’ll be reflecting on."
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"Experiencing myself during practice like I would with a lover with kindness and presence unlocked something profound. I experienced myself as both giver and receiver of life force. It was subtle and ecstatic."
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"Removing climax from the equation removed shame and performance anxiety for me. The stillness at the end of the practice became one of the most peaceful moments of my week."
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"Your teaching created a space that felt simple, subtle, and profound. This course shifted Tantra from something I understood in theory to something I felt in my body."
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"I didn’t realise how much tension I was carrying. The biggest gift was learning that this work is actually simple and that simplicity is what makes it powerful."
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"Understanding self-pleasure as a practice, not a release, has changed everything. I’m so grateful for the honesty and the depth in the space you hold."
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"My world is expanding as I do this work. I’m becoming more open, more attractive, more myself. Men speaking consciously about emtions, sex & life in this way is revolutionary."